Howdy, I’m Bobby Turner (Ubiquitous Onyx), exploring my vanilla to KINK/bdsm and LEATHER choices. A GAY man with HET tendencies and total SWITCH — “Ass is good, dick is better, tongues are great to make a pussy wetter” is my philosophy! I’m brand new to a many things so, I don’t doubt anyone’s choices! I at least try it once with a unbiased approach and that being said, I am very inquisitive — as a voyeur/exhibitionist I peeps it all — if it strikes my interest, I will ask about it when time presents itself! I’m getting help from both sides of the spectrum “Queer and Hetero” which seems to be very humbling to know they both are generally fluid.
For the past two years, I have watched the men of Onyx from afar. I have watched how these men communicate within their perspective rights as comrades — engaging in various activities beyond the sexual assumptions of what the outside world would perceive! In all honesty, I have yet to find a “MAIN” kink, sure there are many things I’m willing to try and love to combine, but to say what is "MY” kink, I’m still exploring. Have I dibbled dabbled, yes, but nothing has stricken me as of now! What I have noticed about myself recently is the love of cigars, rope play, fire play, wax and whips…. My love of leather is the weight, the craftsmanship, the smell is very refreshing to me, as a designer its one of my first feathered ascetics and I’ll stop right there!
With the help of some nice gents (Masters, Sirs and Daddies) I’m finding what I want and need out of this added lifestyle-lifechoice. In the past 10 months, a few of these members in the various regions have reached out to me on my quest to become a Leatherman — providing answers to my many questionnaire sessions and with respect, give me their knowledge of what Leathermen means! Some have taken my request and guided me with some prospective on where do I fit, so I wish to fulfill that order and be great in thy same! Today, I can say that I am a Leatherman, an Onyx Man and furthering my journey as other have done.
I feel that my contributions to the Leather Community as a whole would be monumental in the aspect of my outside talents. I have visual and perfuming arts, and event planning backgrounds. I own and operate a remote design firm. www.blvxqvizionz.com and specialize in graphic art and fine art types. I was a performance major in college which I majored in wind instruments and vocals. I have a vast hospitality background as I was a catering director of a tri-campus university which I headed all campus events, ran all retail stops and sports concessions as well as lead liaison to the University President and family. My experiences has brought me to the conclusion that I can just about accomplish anything in the right place. And, as far as fantasies go, I can’t keep track of them, I’m hard 70% of the day and a huge day dreamer.